Are you living your dream?
Is your life fulfilling and the fully creative and daring expression of the true You?
Do you have permission to be wonderfully You?
Don’t worry if that isn’t the case, this can be remedied.
Your life is your life. Simple, right? Not quite.
A lot of our choices about ourselves, how we choose to live our lives, are in fact down to agreements with those around us, the people in our lives.
Many of those agreements are supportive and allow you to be unconditionally You, while many are also unsupportive. So it’s a good idea to take a look at that.
Our lives can be quite enmeshed with those around us (and not just those who live nearby or those currently in a body): agreements, cords, tasks, promises, expectations and a whole load of other ‘stuff’ may be keeping you tied down in some way.
Also the Havingness level of your partner, boss, friends, family can determine what you allow yourself to have and to be. Do they give themselves generously? Do they live their lives like a daring adventure always looking to grow in more joyous ways?
Many cannot answer ‘yes’ to this.
We can’t really distance ourselves from some people in our lives, but we can distance ourselves from their ways of being, self-limiting beliefs and low Havingness.
We can say no to invalidators by instead validating ourselves. We can give ourselves permission to be wonderful. This is going to ruffle some feathers, but that is not YOUR problem. Those who can’t handle you in your true glory can either get with the program or hit the road!
You don’t need anyone’s permission to be ALL that you can be, which is more than you may dare to imagine even in your wildest dreams. You only need your own permission. Some people or groups would like you to believe otherwise, but it is simply not so. Anything you can dream up — you can be.
~ philosophy at EssenceJoy Clairvoyance
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Meditation
Find some quiet time to turn within. Remove distractions, turn off TV / radio, lock doors, etc. Whatever you need to do to make sure you won’t be disturbed.
Get comfortable in a chair. Feet flat on the floor, hands on thighs palms facing upward, breathe gently and close your eyes. Focus your attention in the middle of your head. Continue breathing gently and deeply into your belly.
Create a clairvoyant screen in front of you. You can make it look like a cinema screen or whatever you like. I like to also give it a golden edge. Keep it about two arms lengths away from you to give you and your images some distance. Ground it: draw gold lines of energy from each four corners to the center of the screen and then a grounding cord from the center of the screen into the center of the planet. Explode a gold sun on the screen for cleansing.
Now visually look at yourself on the screen. See your body, your chakras and your aura. If you can’t see it, then just imagine that you can. Ground yourself: send a grounding cord from your first chakra into the center of the planet and allow it to ground out anything that isn’t yours and what you were ready to let go of.
Then ask for any agreements to show up between you and others that are in some way non-permissive of you being in your full power: you being wonderfully and truly you. Notice cords of energy between you and some individuals whose faces have showed up.
Forgive them, they also bought into self-limiting pictures. You are in the most powerful position now: the position of awareness from where you are able to let go of those pictures and create new ones for yourself.
Go ahead and destroy those agreements. You can visualize cutting those cords or instead see yourself breaking tree branches (this symbolizes breaking agreements). Create a neutral gold rose and throw those cords or broken branches into that rose. Then send this rose out into space and explode it. NB! You aren’t destroying your relationships with these people, but are simply disengaging from their beliefs / pictures / etc, thus freeing yourself up from them.
Also destroy images of those individuals that lit up for you.
Now create a rose and ask it to show you a color for any non-permissive / invalidating energy in your space that is blocking you from being wonderfully and truly You. Ask this color to also light up on / in your body and aura. Then just command this color to drain down your grounding cord and see it going down.
Meanwhile destroy roses for any pictures that allowed this non-permissive energy into your space in the first place! Just see roses exploding for those pictures. No need to go into great detail as to what those pictures were.
Now it’s time to find a color for your Truth.
Create a rose and ask it to show you a color for you being Wonderfully You, your true self, Glorious and All That You Can Be.
Don’t be surprised if this color gives you goosebumps and makes you happier than you have been for a while. Getting in touch with this energy is very powerful indeed.
Now send this color in from your Crown chakra and see it filling up your whole body. Also see it radiating out into all the layers of your aura all around.
To conclude fill up with your Gold Sun’s energy. See a golden, bright, radiant and joyful sun above your Crown and let it send a beam of its energy in from your crown and fill you up. Filling up your head, neck, torso . . . into shoulders and down the arms, into hands and fingers . . . filling up stomach, belly, hips, bum, genitals . . . down the legs into thighs, needs calves, feet and toes . . . then send the Gold Sun down the grounding cord.
And now come right out of that trance! Have a Stretch, give yourself a big pat on the back and laugh uncontrollably — life is a party!
©Janno Õnneleid 2012 All Rights Reserved
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